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I am scarcely wrathful towards wicked men, for the evil dwelling in their hearts resides, if not in abundance, in my heart as well. On the other hand, I am quite envious of great spirits, for the greatness lying in their soul is reluctant to exist even in my heart and mind.
My philosophy is my wealth.
Christianity would be helpless without the idea of freewill, and the idea of freewill would be helpless without incongruity.
It is human to search for the theory of everything, and it is superhuman to find it.
The Universe is empty without Truth and Truth is hollow without Reason.
The most courageous speculation is beyond knowledge, and the most profound speculation is beyond reason.
Light may be a wave as well as a particle. That is not so relevant. What really matters is that it is a form of spatial illusion to non-spatial observer/s.
Matter is non-spatial feeling/s, and Energy is the inherent capacity of the universe to make matter exist.
The worst mockery God can make of a moralist is that He compels him to be a solipsist.
A civilised mind is built up on intellectual and moral foundations, instilled with the universal doubt and inspired by pure love.
All feelings are ideas. All ideas may exist as feelings. But all ideas are not necessarily always feelings.
Peremptoriness is philosophers’ devil.
The world may be imperfect, but the universe is perfectly perfect.
Life is not designed to be moral, and it is not desirable to be immoral.
God is a relentlessly challenging, a profoundly instructive, and an intensely felonious mind.
Nothing is preternatural. It is merely our understanding that is precarious.
Every proposition is a matter of speculation.
Necessity is the ethnicity of truth.
God may be conscientious, but He is surely not sympathetic.
Reality is reason’s workshop.
It is better to be poor than to be rich with a hefty moral burden of poverty around you.
Human life ought to be a consequence of some lively superhuman non-spatial computation.
The universe is a composite of two sorts of minds: mind at rest and mind in action, where the former is Truth and the latter is Feeling.
I tend not to hate for I tend not to ignore. Rather, I strive to love for I strive to understand.
An Englishman is a person who sacrifices his Englishness for the occasion of being inside a church.
The vile saga of crime may, at a point in time, end up in the entire humanity being in prison.
God has put Man in prison for a crime never done.
Envy loves modesty; virtue merely respects it.
God is kind, but evil is intelligent.
Angel walks; Evil crawls.
In astrological terms, Americans are Aries, Spanish are Taurus, French are Gemini, Australians are Cancer, Israelis are Leo, English are Virgo, Greeks are Libra, Pakistanis are Scorpio, Italians are Sagittarius, Germans are Capricorn, Russians are Aquarius, and Indians are Pisces.
I have an amazingly romantic, and yet an intensely heartbreaking feeling that this thing called ‘consciousness’ is so profoundly peculiar that there just can be nothing else like it. I might, therefore, be the only mind in the universe, insanely pondering over things that simply do not exist.
Faith is the eighth deadly sin they forgot tell you.
The invention of the NSTP (Non – Spatial Thinking Process) theory is the most difficult thing I have ever done.
Modern science began with acceptance of space; Superultramodern science began with just the opposite.
I am convinced that an electronic machine, no matter how smart and intelligent, being still a mere spatial structure in concept, can neither innovate nor even understand the axiom: ‘No spatial structure can be a representation of any feeling’. Such innovation can only be a work of a non-spatial mind, like a human being, and only such innovation, it should be acknowledged, can pave the way for further scientific achievements.
A most heartfelt is the experience of learning about a great soul striving for its goal.
Ambition tends to be ungrateful.
My greatest hope is ‘any knowledge’, and my greatest fear is ‘universal doubt’.
Time is patient for the impatient, and impatient for the patient.
All religions are equally true and equally false, for they all are multiple aspects of a more profound singular structure.
Life is so intelligent, meaningful, and, above all, a supreme design, that death would simply make it look absurd. It may thus be sensible to disavow death.
Terror has a soft voice and a harsh language.
God is an uncompromising terrorist preaching an unanswerable question.
In school, I was no good at geometry. Besides, it took me around ten more years to learn that the universe itself has no geometry.
One never gets too many things in life, for if one does, it would be too heavy for one to even proceed.
India is a land where politeness is cowardliness and a cow gains much more respect than a human.
In Cambridge, I had had a golden opportunity to confirm my age-old belief that Man is not as intelligent as He is portrayed to be.
Some men have kind heart and shrewd mind; some have shrewd heart and kind mind.
It is better to have shrewd mind than shrewd heart.
A rich person is the one who has a tendency to accuse oneself of being poor, and a poor person is the one who has a tendency to hail oneself as rich.
Man lost his innocence with a tide of information.
A human who does not mourn death of a fellow human is either cynic or solipsistic.
Man is a fanatic animal.
A negligible numerical difference between human genes makes a great philosophical difference between human beings: one is Hitler; another is Gandhi.
I would never fly with ‘French Airways’ for what’s the guarantee that the pilot doesn’t sleep while flying!
There is nothing I do not doubt.
Nothing qualifies to be beyond doubt.
The man who regrets a tragedy in drama is sentimental, and the man who doesn’t regret a tragedy even in the world is intelligent.
Wise men are faithless.
Morality is a matter of emotion, nobility is a matter of thought, and justice is a matter of action.
Truth is static, and matter is dynamic.
Trust is a virtue of the imprudent, and faith that of the insane.
Trust is misled belief, and faith is misled trust.
If I were to have any religion I would see it in ‘the universal doubt’.
Doubt is wise man’s religion.
Insanity proclaims itself to be virtuous in being faithful.
Religions, themselves, are intellectual blasphemies.
Though it was the beginning of the year 2006, I was still in 27AD.
India is a land of evolutionary immigration and America is a land of revolutionary immigration.
A prison is a model of the world.
Life may be fair, but it could certainly be fairer.
Spatial life is intricate, but trivial; Non-spatial life is simple, but profound.
Destiny is ineluctable.
Man is more intelligent than the other animals only because the concepts He is intelligent at are inherently more intelligent than the concepts the other animals are intelligent at. It may be that all animals are far more intelligent than humans. However, as they know that all of it is ultimately going to be in vain, they keep quiet, and continue doing their business.
The universe needs a metamorphosis, but, in the first place, Man needs one.
Assuming human races exist, one human race may, on average, be superior to another human race, but every person from the superior race cannot necessarily be superior to every person from the inferior race. Those who do not recognise this fact are ‘pure-racialists’, and those who do are ‘pseudo-racialists’.
To every human (in general, non-superhuman) feeling, there is a higher superhuman feeling.
Matter follows Truth.
Doubt is my religion and knowledge is my God.
Experience is dumb.
I hope that death is the end of doubt and the beginning of knowledge.
To understand Man, one has to be, at least, Man; to understand God, however, one has to be God.
Professionalism is nothing but a crude insistance on the mechanization of mankind.
Heart is love that pumps, and penis is a pump that loves.
Heart is pumping love, and penis is a loving pump.
The idea of freewill is an epiphenomenon of the spontaneous overconfidence of the thing called ‘self’ which, moreover, by its inherent nature, is a wonderful delusion to itself.
Surrounding the heavenly oasis of knowledge and peace there is a huge desert of doubt and bloodshed.
God is Evil, and vice versa.
A kind heart has a liberal hand; a magnanimous heart has an extravagant one.
History is all red and green; Future is merely black and white.
Man is yet to know freedom.
Existence is mystery’s ultimate masterpiece.
Life is liveable for it is gratified, and thinkable for it is mystified.
All the world is a non-spatial computer game, and all the men and women merely spatial images.
The universe is a non-spatial matrix.
Demystification is the glory of intellect.
Vice is defenceless against injustice.
A good man is good to those who have been good to him, and a wicked man is good to those who shall be good to him.
Necessity maintains Truth.
Evil tends to triumph, for entropy tends to increase.
Happiness is more important than truth, but it is also scarce without it.
God is supremely misunderstood.
A school is an academic jail.
What philosophy has mainly done, so far, is to attempt to prove or to disprove axioms.
It takes poverty to know life, for knowing life involves knowing its grief, and wealth tends to ignore grief.
The most fundamental dimension is ‘uncertainty’ and the most profound one is ‘mystery’.
This world is full of such intense suffering that even a single moment of joy in my life would debase my soul with unfathomable sin.
The most perplexing question life has thrown upon me is ‘whether I should be a moralist or a solipsist’.
My greatest worldly ambition is to reprogram the non-spatial universal computer.
A quotation, in principle, has a natural strength to be the wit of wisdom.
I have far more reasons to rather disbelieve that a man besides me suffers when he cries, yet I have far more sentiments, than those great reasons, to instead weep for his, far less likely, sufferings.
How simple the universal design would be if all life, besides me, were simply unconscious.
Painful life is brutal and painless life is superficial.
The journey of science begins with common sense and ends in nonsense.
Nature is habitually and profoundly disrespectful of common sense.
Inequality is natural and nurturing it is more so.
The two world wars, especially the second one, if I may say, are perhaps the most glaring universal realisations of the moral idealism that a relentless sinner- a tyrant, an oppressor- is destined to be offended shamelessly by evil, similar, if not the same, in ideals and nature.
The ultimate mission of life should be to reprogram the non-spatial universal computer, resulting in knowledge and eternal happiness.
Man shall be free once he has taught God.
I praise God on his knowledge, but I condemn him on his actions, for his knowledge is profoundly mysterious, but his actions are painfully absurd.
To know the universal design may be human, but to change it is absolutely divine.
The universe is a great ocean of non-spatial feelings, the ocean where the entire drama of space, time and self, and the profound ideals of life, death and humanity are merely submerged.
Man’s respect for God lies solely in His greater powers.
I feel I exist; I think the world exists.
I love life for its happiness, and I respect it for its mysteriousness.
One is never envious of great, unless one is great.
Tagore has a mere inheritance of thought, but a pure gift of expression.
God is a ruthless sectarian, a bigot. It is a blind romanticism of saints and poets to glorify him as a pure universal soul, to form him formless.
The universe is one in that it is non-spatial, it is many in that it has truths and feelings, and it is an illusion in that space is a mere impression amongst some of the feelings.
The evolution of scientific ideas fathers the mother.
The great minds have told you the rules of only a particular universal game. I define the idea of game itself, so that new better games could be thought of and may even be played.
I hope from the bottom of my heart that poverty and misery are unconscious.
I like Man, but I hate Men.
God has conquered the entire universe, and now its Man’s turn.
Let me meditate, and I shall conquer the universe.
The key to eternal happiness is God’s death.
God created Man to die at the hands of the human mind.
Those who are meek towards God do not understand Him; those who are not would wish to kill Him.
The most profound aspect of the universe would lie in the ultimate failure of ‘understanding’, be it rational or, as they call it, spiritual.
I exploit the unconscious world to quench my consciousness.
An Englishman’s greatest hypocrisy is his faith in Christianity.
Sex is the most materialistic form of love.
God is a superhuman mind that represents the design of the material universe in the form of non-spatial feelings.
Nietzsche’s superman is a man superior to the man of today.
If you cannot bear eternal happiness it is not eternal happiness.
I have ceased to dream since I have known that reality is non-spatial. Yet I am forced to live in that world of dreams for there is no other world I am mighty enough to be in.
Laughter is the refuge in the world of madness; lament is the result in the world of sadness.
An Englishman is at his best at hypocrisy when he attends a church.
God is a passive hypocrite.
God is passively sanctimonious.
If there is anything misunderstood as much as the concept of God it is the concept of logic.
Intellect is intellectual at analysis; genius is genius at synthesis.
Space is an illusive product of its negation.
I respect Newton for his unfailing belief in Astrology.
Every man loves his own madness.
Astrology gives me the best insight into God’s mind and the NSTP theory provides me with the best insight into the mechanism of that mind.
I, in contrast, have an immense pleasure in hypothesizing that gravitation is a specific type of spatial illusion to non-spatial observer/s.
I am far more certain that God exists than that He created the world.
I am more worried with the politics God is playing with humanity.
God is software written in superhuman language on non-spatial hardware constituted of feelings.
The more I find life to be a great design, the more I suspect it to be singular in existence; the more I suspect it to be singular, the more I feel it to be specific and personal; the more I feel it to be personal, the more I think of it to be a mere question; And the more I think of it to be a question, the less I understand the questioner.
The more I find life to be a great design, the less I understand the designer.
Reason is not necessarily linguistic.
If time were a mere (non-spatial) feeling, the entire history would be an illusion- a mere concept with no correspondence to reality. However, in fact, time also exists as an imperishable idea, which makes the reality have an inherent eternal sense of past, as well as that of present and future, thus making history make sense.
Einstein tells me how genius really looks like.
Imagination paves the way to knowledge through particular innovation and hinders the way through universal suspicion.
Destiny is a result of reality’s absolute eternal rigidity.
What ‘rebirth’ could mean is a possible existence of (non-spatial) states of consciousness, after death, representing (ideally) the same, or (roughly) similar kinds of experiences as being represented in this particular life to which death would be a particular end. It is important to learn that here the concept of soul is not involved and thus the idea of rebirth, loosing its fundamental significance, becomes, in theory, a mere virtual or pseudo phenomenon.
Reality is not an illusion; reality is real. The fact is that what science believes to be real is an illusion, and vice versa.
In the experience of space, space is an illusion and the experience is real.
The relativity of time is made real by various illusive experiences of time existing really as non-spatial feelings.
I like dawn and night; what exists between these two is a sheer boredom.
The only problem with the great scientific and philosophical minds is that all of them were wrong.
If mass and energy – wave and particle – were both to be but different manifestations of the same thing, that same thing would be ‘non-spatial feeling’.
Though I am irritated with the realisation of my own pain, I am profoundly distressed with the suspicion of that of the other – for though I may find a number of physical ways to end my irritation I find not even a single certain way to overcome my suspicion.
In my eyes Einstein became a legend with his assertion – only daring speculation can lead us further.
I understand the question, but not the questioner.
Once I understand the universal questioner I shall have resolved the universal question.
What has the questioner gained by putting me into the question?
Though I believe to have found, in theory, a superhuman mind existing as non-spatial feelings and responsible for the natural phenomena – the mind which I often refer to as God – I fear there is a sublimely higher universal questioning mind, completely beyond what the entire humanity may have ever thought and what it could ever feel, understand, or imagine.
The universe is a question written in the language of feelings demanding an answer to be given in an unknown language.
There is an infinite distance between the plane at which the ultimate universal wisdom lies and the one at which my own little wisdom does; but the problem is that it is again I who has imagined the planes and has calculated the distance.
Christianity is Jewish absurdity; Relativity is Jewish profundity.
I’m a Hindu in the only sense of my belief that the Upanishads do make some philosophical sense.
What I have asserted in axioms is something that the entire generations of philosophers have only managed to mumble.
I am Sun and Jupiter, not Venus and Mercury.
The only absurdity in which I find equally immense compassion and morality is Christianity – though the compassion is outlandish and the morality is blemished.
I am prepared to commend all philosophers but Wittgenstein.
Nothing would stun my intellect as much as a well-formed impression that 'that which is believed to be logical – and therefore, eternal – had a thoughtful creation'; and nothing would hold me back from any further philosophising as strongly as an intense suspicion that 'nothingness is the only existence'.
I believe in the existence of space only to the extent that it – the space – is an illusion.
Man is a child that shall never grow up.
Descartes’ ‘unextended mind’, Leibniz’ ‘windowless monads’, Kant’s ‘non-spatial mental apparatus’, and, in a very limited sense, Sankara’s ‘Brahma’ are my non-spatial feelings. The big difference – though not the only one – however lies in how the fact – that mind is non-spatial – is found. The four philosophical giants find it through heavy argumentation, whereas I, in contrast, understand it to be self-evident.
I have said in one axiomatic sentence what others have said in literature that occupies libraries worldwide.
Whatever you do – rationalise, philosophise, or moralise – you shall understand that life is a profound despair.
A great sense of reason comes with a great sense of morality.
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Mid life Crisis is not a disease or an event that one can avoid. It afflicts everyone who lives through their middle years. There is no warning as to when it will hit you, but when it does, it likely will come at the worst possible time, but then again, when is a good time for a meltdown?
Most likely your time will differ from that of your friends and others close to you like your Husband or Wife, since our Middle years can begin anytime from our mid thirties through one’s fifties and everyone is different.
Don’t even think you can avoid mid life Crisis, because you can’t! No amount of money or influence can get you out of this one. How you endure the transformation and to what degree you suffer or not, will vary as widely as those who experience it. You know the cliché, forewarned is forearmed, so knowing what will happen and how to survive the experience in tact, can go a long way. Right!
I may have been exaggerating slightly about how ominous Middle aged Crisis can be, because I wanted to grab your attention. However, we have all heard the jokes about middle aged crisis and know that within all jokes, there does contain a grain of truth. The truth here is that some of you will experience a major shift in your lives, while for others the change may be more gentle. Do not doubt that change is on its way. It is inevitable! You may not have say on if or when it will happen, but you do have a say in how you will deal with it. Each and every one of us is equipped with a silver bullet in our personal arsenal to deploy as we see fit. This is something that you may already be using or something that you have yet to take out. It matters not because you never run out of it. It is the most effective weapon we have and that is Attitude!
As a Life Coach, we use our attitude and perspective to help our clients deal with many issues in their lives until their own attitude can take over. In fact, we often say that if we only have one tool to use, Perspective would be it. How you view things, and the attitude you take toward life’s ups and downs, (your perspective), has a dramatic effect on how you cope. Are you a glass is half full or half empty person? Do you laugh in the face of danger or do you run and hide in terror? Are you someone who is afraid of change or do you embrace it like me? Do you see problems or opportunities for improvement? Positive and negative personalities are obviously opposites of each other, with the extremes differing in folks all up and down the spectrum of the pole. I can certainly find folks who exemplify the ends of the pole, those with very strong outlooks, but for those who are fence sitters, you now have an opportunity to change your attitude. Only you know how you experience the world around you, but I know that a positive or negative attitude will affect how you experience what I have coined, The Emergence of our True Self. How would you like to go through life? Seeing opportunities or finding problems everywhere? The choice is yours.
Look at this time as an amazing opportunity for you to take a peek behind the veil, the cloak of mystery that is you. Avidly seek out the answers to questions that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. I know that as a child I lay in bed and many times looked up at the sky and wondered, “Why am I here”? “What is my purpose?” “How can I be more than I am?” These are the questions that will now be answered for you. This is your time to finally solve the mystery. View this time as a positive experience. This is your time and it has been given to you so that you can emerge as your True Self. Feel all of it; embrace the experience, even the tough stuff. Remember the butterfly and its struggle to emerge from it’s cocoon. You may struggle through this time but you will emerge a more content person for it. I am positive about this.
Middle Aged Crisis, struck this week and it happened to a man we will call Dan. Let’s see how it begins so we know what to look for. Dan is a slightly paunchy, balding middle-aged man in his late 40’s, whose one attempt of rebellious attitude towards his wife, was to go against her thrifty nature and adorn the front end of his mini van with a ‘bra”!
One day, Dan left his ‘bra’ behind and came home wearing a shiny new candy apple red corvette instead. It looks like the van was traded in for this gorgeous sexy rolling piece of penis envy. After the ‘big wow’ fell out of your dropped jaw, was your next thought the same as mine “now there’s a guy whose wife is going to kill him”? Where are the kids going to sit? Is Dan a classic case of a man having a mid life crisis?!”
Will his ‘search” for himself end here or will Dan take it a step further? It seems that several of the guys in Dan’s office have traded their wives of 3o years for 30 yr.old wives. We don’t know if Dan knows any 30 yr; old women so we will have to wait and see about that. Dan seems to be the poster boy for Middle Aged Men in crisis but what about woman? Are they immune to mid life angst and do men and woman manifest their symptoms in the same way? Joan Rivers and her G-force facelift might be the perfect example of a woman who is still searching for more in her life but can’t get past her mirror. We often joke about woman and their hot flashes, but do they wake up all sweaty and then head out in the morning to buy sexy cars or is there another measure of being unsatisfied they go for? I have a few lady friends who were the very last women in the world I EVER expected to radically deviate from their MOM role. It seemed at 40 something, they woke up one day and traded their beautifully decorated home, mommy and wifely duties for a basement apartment and freedom. Did it mean they loved their children less? Nope, it just meant that they were compelled to find out who they were after being a mom and wife. Yes, a few became what is commonly referred to today as Cougars, woman who prey on younger men, but for the most part, they seemed to be genuinely seeking themselves. Either this was something that was lost, or something they never had in the first place.
So is Mid life Crisis a valid condition or an excuse to be selfish and make up for poor choices along the way? Is it a human condition that we will all experience in varying degrees as we pass through their middle ages, or is it reserved for those who share certain personality traits? Is it possible that it is related to female menopause or male Andropause? Do hormones have anything to do with the ‘stress and distress of those in the eye of this storm? Are these people as out of control as they sometimes seem to be?
I am not a doctor and do not know the answer to these questions but I do know as a Life Coach and a woman in her middle years, that there seems to be a great many people in this age category who are seeking and searching for something that will fill a part of them that is missing. They have a great desire for something more in their life, but what that MORE is they don’t know. It is a time of personal reflection and for some breaking out of a mold that has held them for many years. Perhaps you know someone who has quit their executive position or walked out on their 30 year marriage. It doesn’t always make sense, this behaviour, but there is common theme. CHANGE!
It seems that many are seeking their destiny, and the meaning of life. They want to know what their purpose is and where they fit into the Grand Scheme. They want to know what this thing called LIFE is all about, and they are seeking their soul, their soul mates and questioning long held beliefs. Spirituality is a common theme, and many search for their connection to something larger than the known world and for answers they go to the Unknown world
A metamorphosis is taking place and I see it as our third great struggle of life. The first is being born, the second is adolescence and now this time I will coin, The Emergence of Self. The emergence because it is our true self we are seeking. Not the daughter, son, mother, father, doctor, cook or any other label we have put on ourselves, but OUR true SELF , our true soul, the nature of who we really are. It seems this is a time where anything can happen and does.
Sometimes those who are most surprised by what happens next are the seekers themselves.
As adolescents we go through the change together, it is expected, so resources are in place to help us deal with it. Our families and teachers are there for us, supporting the change. Now in our mid 40’s- 50’s, it seems we face this change alone. No longer are our buddies, families or teachers there to support us. In fact, it may be that those closest to you don’t understand why you are contemplating the things you are. They may argue that you are making a big mistake and you don’t know what you are doing. Even if this is true, and in many cases it is, there doesn’t seem to be anything to do about it except ride it out.
Have you ever wondered at the timing of all this? Why is it so important to KNOW right now? Why upset the apple cart at this stage of your life?
Perhaps it is so that our time here is not wasted in the larger sense. Many of us as children had a dream or a goal. I think that this first memory may be the truth of who we really are and why we are here.
How many of us have stayed true to who we were? I know that there have been many times in my life that duty as a daughter, a mother, and even a wife have taken precedence over who I wanted to be. So maybe this frustration, this time of wanting is really the only way to help us break the chains of ‘good behaviour’ and allows us the time to search for our lost selves or if you believe in the metaphysical then perhaps we are waking up to what brought us here in the first place, our contract or mission. Have you felt that there is a master plan but you haven’t been let in on the details?
The there is a great secret, albeit unknown to you, and almost like a cosmic joke, it is at your expense. Why does this transformation take place? Is there a way of escaping it? I think not. It seems to me a natural progression to a higher state of being if we are lucky. It seems we all go through the process, albeit at slightly different ages and degrees of angst. I believe that this is one “Crisis” that is supposed to happen and rather than describe it as a crisis we could rename it as a transformation. We have all have known a “Dan”, a 50 something guy who finally buys his corvette, or his Harley, leaves his wife or leaves his job- any or all of these are fairly common and classic crisis behaviour. As I said earlier, Women are not immune either. We can all envision the Cougar, a woman in her mid to late 40’s who used to be Suzy Homemaker and is now on the prowl for a 2o something guy to make up for her boring life.
On the outside, this behaviour seems selfish and I suppose in some ways it is. But remember, this Emergence is about self and change and change never comes easily. There is always a struggle and in this instance, doing what is opposite in nature of what one has always been done may be one of the catalysts to the next step. These folks are in the midst of a chemical and physical transformation. Alchemy is taking place. When all is said and done, they will be different.
They are reaching out for their world to make sense and hopefully when all is said and done, they will have found peace. Peace within themselves and peace with their outside world. We know that these folks want more, but and the sexy car, younger mate is not the whole answer because change on the outside does not equate with change on the inside. I feel that this transformation may actually be harder on us than adolescence. When we are young, we have out parents to support us. We walk en mass with our friends to school and we are all going through stuff together. But mid life, we do that one by ourselves and many times, we wreak havoc on the lives of those we love the most. This change, this metamorphosis, cannot likely be stopped, anymore that you can stop breathing, but for some, it comes with great cost. Our bodies change- we don’t child bear anymore. We have wrinkles and grey hairs sprouting from places they aren’t supposed too. Our skin on our hands begin to thin and become translucent, showing the blue of our veins. We fear we are losing our sexuality, our vitality and our ability to be ‘seen’ as one of the players. We fear this invisibility and we fight to be more than we are, because we want to stay in the game. We also know that we are more than we are showing. We wake to an unknown dream or assignment and strive to fulfill our life’s mission, but the guide book is missing. The map is gone and our hands flail in the wind seeking something solid to grip onto. It’s a turbulent time until one day, you wake up and your life begins to make sense again. You start to realize what is important. Who you are and what you are passionate about. You know what you love and whom you love and you have a sense of the greater picture. You know why you are here. You understand your ties to the past and what you bring to the future. The Emergence of Self will happen whether you plan for it or not. At some point in your life mid life, an amazing discovery of self will take place, and I hope that you complete your transformation all the way until you feel at peace within your heart and the world around you. For those of you who are wondering what signs to look for or if you are currently experiencing your transformation, below you can find a list of common features:
Typical features of mid-life include:
Experiencing healthy dissatisfaction……..yearning for more…..is this it??
What worked before no longer rocks your world.
The changing body becomes your guide.
You get used to uncertainty
You want to give back
You become much more than you thought you were.
Your values change significantly
You are getting a hefty whiff of you own mortality.
The emergence of wisdom
Mid-life challenges that Coaching can assist with:
• Finding your Passion
• Removing FEAR from the Change Process
• Learning how to acknowledge and accept others
• Learning to Communicate at heart level
• Reconnect with your SELF
• Leaving Guilt Behind
• Trusting your instincts
• Creating a vision
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For some men making decision not to have children (or not to have more children) is simple. But when it comes to action to prevent that, it is just much easier to say than do. Do you trust your partner to take her contraceptive pill? Sometimes an 'accident' does happen and then the big decision about going through with the pregnancy becomes complicated. Natural law leaves the decision to have a child once it has been conceived firmly in the domain of the woman, so you will no longer have the final say about.
You can use other birth control method- condoms. But this option is not 100% reliable under any circumstances and condoms can be inconvenient. Those reasons make many people in monogamous relationships choose to rely on the contraceptive pill. Condoms should be used as a matter of course for sexual activity where you have concerns about sexually transmitted diseases as well as pregnancy..
The most reliable method seems to be permanent sterilization - an operation called a vasectomy. Although it is a small operation it has big implications. You should discuss with your partner this issue very carefully before making final decisions. Keep in mind that it would be difficult if not impossible to reverse the operation. With all sexual matters there are emotional and practical issues to consider so it can be one of the most important decisions in your life. You should know answers to those questions to make the decision.
What is a vasectomy?
It is minor surgery to tie the 'tubes' what causes permanent sterility, because tying the tubes prevents sperm from getting out of your testicles.
Will I be able to achieve an orgasm and ejaculation?
Vasectomy does not affect the man's ability to enjoy sex, have orgasm or ejaculate. There will still be a fluid ejaculated, but there will be no sperm in this fluid.
Is the operation difficult?
No it is not. There is a small cut made in the upper part of the scrotum, under the penis. The tubes (vas deferens) are tied off and cut apart. The skin incision is stitched closed. Vasectomy is usually done in the surgeon's office and most men only have local anesthetic, so are awake during the operation. The procedure is painless and you should be able to return home immediately.
Is vasectomy permanent?
You should consider vasectomy as permanent and should be 100% sure you do not want future pregnancies. Although it can be reversed it is not recommended and it can jeopardize your health.
